About

Joel’s Place is a 501(c)(3) non-profit that offers support groups for children and their families who have experienced the death of someone special.

Operating Philosophies

Grief is a natural reaction to the death of a loved one for children as well as adults.

Within each individual is the natural capacity to heal oneself.

The duration and intensity of grief are unique for each individual.

Caring and acceptance assist in the healing process.

Find ways to incorporate memories of those that have died so that over time the loss is less painful.

The support group environment can be a source of empathy, understanding, and encouragement.

We operate on the belief that it is helpful and healing for grieving children and their families to share their stories, memories, experiences, thoughts, and feelings with other grieving children.

Our History

Joel’s Place for Children was conceived in 2003 by Kathy Stellato, R.N. and Mary Willhite, L.S.W. They decided to create a non-profit to meet the needs of children and their families who experienced the death of a loved one. 

Joel Willhite is the namesake of Joel’s Place. He died at 51 years old, and his father died when Joel was 18. He would be honored that an organization that carries his name is providing comfort to children and their families.

Joel’s wife, Mary Willhite, was Joel’s Place Co-Founder and Board Member. She died in 2023 and we are grateful for her work establishing, maintaining and growing our organization.

Donate

We do not receive government funding. Your gift supports grieving children and their families.

Get Help

We meet every other Tuesday at Bay Presbyterian Church from 6:00-7:30 PM.

Volunteer

Use your skills and life experiences to bring hope and help to others. We're always looking for help!

Events

View our upcoming events such as our annual fundraiser or our annual butterfly release.

Contact

We provide free support groups for children who have experienced the death of someone special.

Meet Our Board of Directors & Team

Becky is the Executive Director at Joel’s Place for Children. Becky's passion for children's grief support grows from the sudden death of her mom, Mary Jane Verner, when Becky was 10 years old. Her dad took Becky and her older sister to peer-based grief support groups. Becky is grateful to manage operations for the organization, including leading the team of facilitators, working with the Board of Directors and being actively involved in the National Alliance for Children's Grief.

Becky McDermott

Executive Director

Prior to becoming President of Joel’s Board of Directors (effective February 2025), Rick was a supporter of Joel’s Place for several years and joined our Board as a member in 2023. Rick is a Registered Architect and has a history of civic involvement including Firefighter/EMT, Councilman, and has served on many other civic and non-profit boards in Northeast Ohio. He is currently the Director of Development for a local Cleveland family business.

Rick Porter

President
Emma serves as the Vice President of the Board of Directors at Joel’s Place for Children and leads the adult peer support group. She brings years of experience in nonprofit management, business development, and grief support facilitation. Emma first connected with Joel’s Place through her own personal experience with loss, which ignited her passion for helping families navigate grief in a compassionate, supportive environment. As the lead adult facilitator, she provides guidance and understanding to caregivers, ensuring they feel supported while helping their children process their emotions.

Emma Sherrie

Vice President
Victoria, Secretary of Joel’s Place for Children’s Board of Directors, heard of Joel’s Place for several years through the funeral profession but became involved in the Fall of 2023 when she joined as a board member. She became an assistant adult facilitator in 2024 after experiencing the sudden death of her husband. Victoria is presently working on a Master’s Degree in Clinical Counseling at John Carroll University to give back to the community and help the often forgotten mourners in grief-children.

Victoria Martens

Secretary
Bill has been involved with Joel’s Place since 2010. Bill wanted to give back to the community and work with an organization that could use his help. He became involved after being referred to Joel’s Place by Business Volunteers Unlimited. His favorite part about working with Joel’s Place is interacting with the people—the other Bill is the CAO/CFO at Western Reserve Partners LLC, and lives in Bay Village with his wife Linda and his two teenage daughters. Bill served almost 15 years as our Board President. He is now Treasurer of the Board of Directors at Joel’s Place.

Bill Goodill

Treasurer

Steve Petras is the Director of the Case Western Reserve University School of Law’s Frederick K. Cox International Law Center and U.S. National Director of the Canada-U.S. Law Institute. He graduated from Case Law School in 1979 and has practice international business law until his retirement from Baker & Hostetler LLP at the end of 2018. He currently serves as Chairman of the Board of the Council of the Great Lakes Region, Director of the World Affairs Councils of America, Director of the Northeast Ohio International Business Network and Member of the Northern Ohio District Export Council.

Steve Petras

Board Member

Lauren began facilitating with Joel’s Place in 2022. She became a board member in 2023 to continue giving back to the organization. She brings sales and marketing expertise to Joel’s Place, and a Master’s degree in Child Life from Missouri State University. She is a Certified Child Life Specialist. Lauren’s favorite part about working with the children at Joel’s Place is knowing that even the most simple interactions make all the difference to the children. Lauren is also Program Director at Joel's Place.

Lauren Armstrong

Board Member & Program Director

Mary Sue has been involved with Joel’s Place since 2006, after responding to the request of Mary and Kathy to act as a Board Member. Mary Sue is grateful to know that there is a group in which children can receive the support they need during a traumatic time in their lives. She also knows that families are grateful knowing there is somewhere to turn to for help. Mary Sue enjoys knowing that her work on the Board helps keep the support groups running. Mary Sue is a funeral director at the McGorray-Hanna Funeral Home.

Mary Sue McGorray

Board Member

Bethany is a dedicated advocate for trauma-informed care, nonprofit leadership, and community outreach. She currently serves as a Community Outreach Education Coach at The MetroHealth System’s Trauma Recovery Center, where she facilitates trauma-informed programs. Passionate about helping children navigate grief, Bethany brings a compassionate and research-based approach to Joel’s Place for Children. She volunteers at community events, mentors youth, and provides international trauma-informed care consulting.

Bethany Monteiro

Board Member

Becky has been involved with Joel’s Place since its inception in 2003. Becky’s daughter died at age 20 of a congenital heart defect, and after seeing her sons struggle with that loss, she wanted to get involved with an organization that would provide needed grief support to children. Her favorite part about volunteering with Joel’s Place is her ability to interact with the children. Becky is a retired reading specialist with the Cleveland Metropolitan School District.

Becky Walters

Board Member

Mary Willhite was one of the founders of Joel’s Place and ran the children’s groups since they began in 2003. Mary believed that there was an unmet need for providing support to children who had a special person in their lives die. Her favorite part about working with Joel’s Place was seeing the children become more comfortable sharing their stories. Joel’s Place for Children is named in memory of Mary’s husband Joel Willhite, who died of colon cancer in 1998. Naming grief centers in memory of those special to us who have died is common among the National Alliance for Children’s Grief. This is one example to model healthy coping skills and meaning making for our participants. Mary died in the Fall of 2023. We remember her in all the work we do.

Mary Willhite

Emeritus

Kathy Stellato is one of the founders of Joel’s Place. For 20 years, Kathy volunteered as a grief support group facilitator and Program Director. Kathy’s favorite part about working with Joel’s Place was watching the children interacting and sharing with one another. Kathy is a nurse who lives in Chagrin Falls with her husband and has two adult children. She is now an Emeritus member of our Board of Directors.

Kathy Stellato

Emeritus

Alondra is passionate about healthcare operations, nonprofit leadership, and community outreach. She is an Administrative Coordinator for the Cleveland Clinic, Brain Study.

She joined Joel’s Place for Children to help expand its reach and strengthen community connections. With a background in psychology, neuroscience, and healthcare management, she is committed to supporting children and families navigating grief. She hopes to foster strategic partnerships, increase awareness, and ensure that more families have access to the essential resources Joel’s Place provides.

Alondra Y. Villanueva

Board Member

Kathleen has been involved with Joel’s Place since 2003 after seeing a request for volunteers in the St. Raphael’s church bulletin. She thought her prior experiences would be put to great use by helping children who had suffered a loss. Kathleen finds the compassion of the adult volunteers and the time spent with the children the most satisfying part of working with Joel’s Place.

Kathleen Kennedy

Board Member

Lisa Stofan

Board Member

Dr. Richard Pressler

Board Member

 

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Frequently Asked Questions

We named Joel’s Place for Children in honor and memory of Joel Willhite, husband of our co-founder Mary Willhite. Joel died from colon cancer on May 24, 1998, at age 51. Losing his father at 18 deeply impacted Joel throughout his life. Mary believes Joel would feel proud to know his name represents an organization that offers comfort to children and families facing similar challenges.

We serve school-aged children, ages 5–18. We also offer a group for the caregivers of children attending Joel’s Place. We group children by age and developmental stage to encourage strong peer support.

Call us at 216-202-4243 or email info@joelsplaceforchildren.org to request intake paperwork and schedule a meeting and tour. All new families complete an intake interview to ensure our program is the right fit. A child’s legal guardian must sign the intake paperwork.

Joel’s Place for Children operates independently and has no religious affiliation. We welcome families of all faiths and do not promote any religious or spiritual beliefs in our groups. Bay Presbyterian Church generously provides our space, but we are not a church-based organization.

Groups typically meet every other Tuesday during the school year. We take breaks over the summer and during the winter holidays.

Every July, we host our annual Butterfly Release, bringing together current and past Joel’s Place families to release living butterflies and enjoy brunch at the rose garden in Cahoon Park, Bay Village. By popular request from our kids, we’ve recently added a fun kickball game to the event!

Our grief support groups are free of charge.

As a 501(c)(3) nonprofit, we rely on the generosity of donors and limited grant funding. We do not receive support from major corporate sponsors.

Facilitators arrive at 5:15 pm for a pre-meeting to review the evening’s plans. Families arrive between 6:00–6:30 pm, and we serve a pizza dinner. Peer-based grief support groups run from 6:30–7:30 pm, with separate groups for children, teens, and caregivers based on age and development. After groups, families head home while facilitators meet briefly to wrap up the evening.

Children participate in age-appropriate activities that help them express emotions in a safe, supportive environment with peers who have experienced the death of someone special. Trained facilitators guide children through activities and discussions. Parents and caregivers meet separately for support.

Families eat dinner together, then break into separate groups. Parents and caregivers do not join the child’s group, but we offer adult groups at the same time to support them.

Our programs run year-round with open enrollment, so families can join at any time and attend as often as they’d like.

We strive to create an inclusive environment and support children with a variety of needs. While we may not have specialized training for all disabilities, we encourage you to contact us to discuss your child’s unique needs. We’ll work together to create the best possible experience.

We do not offer individual counseling. Instead, we provide peer-based group support. Our activities are therapeutic but not therapy. If you need referrals for individual counseling for yourself or your child, we can provide recommended resources.

We currently enroll only adults connected to children in our programs. We hope to expand in the future to support more populations, including adults without children in the program. If you’d like to help us grow, please reach out.

We always welcome volunteers to support our programs. Fill out a volunteer application on our website. Volunteers help with group facilitation, administrative tasks, and fundraising events. We are also accepting applications for our Board of Directors.

Visit our website to donate online. We also accept in-kind donations and offer various giving options. Every contribution helps us support children and families in need.

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Get Help for Your Family Today

New families are welcome to attend our grief support groups any time at Joel’s Place. Contact us, share your story, and join us.